in the past, both men and women wer

in the past, both men and women were expected to be married at quite young ages. marriages were generally arranged by parents and family, with their children having little chance to say no in the matter. In the past it was not surprising to find that a bride and groom had only just met on the day of thier engagement or marriage
in modern vietnam, this has changed completely as people choose their own marriage-partners based on love, and in consideration primarily to their own needs and wants.
the traditional vietnamese wedding is one of the most important of traditional vietnamese occasions. regardless of westernization, many of the age-old customs practiced in a traditional vietnamese wedding continue to be celebrated by both vietnamese in vietnam and overseas, often combining both western and eastern elements. besides the wedding ceremony, there is also an engagement ceremony which takes place usually half a year or so before the wedding. the number of guests in attendance at these banquets in huge, usually in the hundreds. several special dishes are served. guests are expected to bring gifts, often money, which the groom and bride at one point in the banquet will go from table to table collecting.