Hi How are you Kimchi?I understand

Hi
How are you Kimchi?
I understand you waiting for right moment and looking for house or apartment as first step of your plan.
You have told me you are in a living hell and that you looking and planning for a way out. As your friend I just want to make shore everything is right.
First of all:
Be 100% shore this what you want, and make up your mind what he want, care and involve.
Will he disagree and try stop you from leaving with Suri or try hold her back?
What can he possible do to stop you and make trouble for you or change your mind? (would he potential kidnap her??)
He love Suri very much you say, what do that means and indicate.
How will you/him and Suri relate after you leave?
FIRST STEP (date, timing)
- Area, price, and size (1.realistic 2. dream)
Include here is finance what is needed cash and option for finance, credit etc
- How much you have and how much more you need?
- Cashflow for living + for business
- Discuss and find market options to get what money needed?
I will like help advice you look what is smart and not about financing
STEP TWO (date, timing)
You find and buy an apartment
- renovate, renew before move in....
- How arrange and care for Suri alone do you need help?
- How long way to work not be to tired
Make shore you have time and cashflow enough to be happy and living spend time with Suri.
STEP THREE
This is divorce and put things behind you.
Everything around this I not know how complex it might be in vietnam...
I really have no knowledge of this in Vietnam, in Norway it turbulent time take few year usually if there no violence, disuse or crime involved. Before paper is issued

Is your plan something like this, honey?
I like talk with you step by step here just to hear you have consider all sides of it.
All the way you must handle your business think how expand it into something more profitable, :-) Look forward to talk with you again sunshine!

sincerly