Làm thế nào để là một PhoenixThe emotional intensity within this relationship is likely to penetrate beneath all your defences and masks, and consequently this bond has the power to radically transform your image of yourself and your goals in life. It is not that the relationship is unduly compulsive; but it has a definite and pronounced influence on your sense of individuality, compelling you through its almost hypnotic effect on you to look more deeply at who you are and what you want from life. You may sometimes experience the sense of a "fate" at work, although this is a subjective response which reflects the degree to which you are fascinated and drawn by the power of the relationship. You may also sometimes feel threatened or overwhelmed, because you may experience yourself as being somehow dismantled and rebuilt without your consent, and may pass through bouts of considerable anxiety because you do not know what you are in process of becoming, or whether the invisible currents of the relationship will ultimately be benign or destructive to you. But if you are able to avoid defensive maneuvres such as power-battles, and can allow the penetrating effects of the relationship to open up your vision of yourself and life, you will find that you are renewed and changed on very deep levels of your personality. It is possible that the relationship will have a radically transformative and positive effect on your external circumstances as well as your sense of self, even if this involves periods of crisis or frustration; for if you can remain loyal to your own values while accepting the intelligent hidden patterns at work in your life, you will emerge from such periods with a much stronger sense of personal identity, inner authority and creative potency.
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