Attracting your ideal partnerOkay,

Attracting your ideal partner

Okay, you have sown your wild oats, done the single life, bought the t-shirt in fact you bought the whole outfit. Then comes a thought in the back of your mind, a slow burning thought that gathers momentum: ‘I think it’s time to settle down’. You might have been thinking it for a while and it’s finally came to a head. You are not enjoying all those nights out as much, you’d rather sit in with a good book or a decent film, and you look at couples in love and envy them. This is the little ‘settle down’ voice.

The settle down voice

This is not a sudden voice in your head, it is a gradual one and one that is hard to ignore. It points out couples who are in love, it points out cute little babies in prams, it points out how lonely you are in bed (even if there is someone lying next to you), it makes you aware of romantic comedies’, in fact everything that involves loving couples and it will show you.

Yes, you try to ignore this little voice but it gets louder and louder and then you know it’s time to listen and the little voice has convinced you that you want a partner. Someone to settle down with.

However, the little voice buggers off as soon as you start looking for your ideal partner. You look everywhere; in the workplace, in the pubs and clubs, you look at passers by in the street, and you still don’t find them. What do you do to find your perfect partner?

The settle down voice

This is not a sudden voice in your head, it is a gradual one and one that is hard to ignore. It points out couples who are in love, it points out cute little babies in prams, it points out how lonely you are in bed (even if there is someone lying next to you), it makes you aware of romantic comedies’, in fact everything that involves loving couples and it will show you.

Yes, you try to ignore this little voice but it gets louder and louder and then you know it’s time to listen and the little voice has convinced you that you want a partner. Someone to settle down with.

However, the little voice buggers off as soon as you start looking for your ideal partner. You look everywhere; in the workplace, in the pubs and clubs, you look at passers by in the street, and you still don’t find them. What do you do to find your perfect partner?

Visualise them in your mind
Once you have written down all the attributes you like, have an image in you head of your partner, their size, their rough looks, their personality, their sense of humour. Everything you want in you partner, try and visualize them and how the attributes you have written down play out in different scenarios e.g. how do they act in front of your friends, how do they treat you when you are out to dinner, how they act when they are with their friends.
Let go!
Let go of the thought of ever meeting your ideal partner. This may sound like a contradiction but it is very important. I am not saying stop visualizing them, as this is important, but let go of the outcome. By letting go of the outcome, you step back and trust another force to act on your behalf.
This is how I met my wife. I had been looking for the ideal partner for years and had visualised her, and her attributes. I remember vividly the day I let go of the outcome. It was July 19th 2002. I used to look out for her everywhere, and was disappointed when she had not met me yet. Then one day I was walking along Argyle Street in Glasgow and literally said to myself “I am going to stop looking for her, I am relatively happy being a bachelor, and if that’s my lot in life, I’ll learn to make the most of it…” , I still had the image of her in my head, but I let go and stopped looking for her. After work that day, I was persuaded to go to a 40th birthday party. I was walking along the street with two friends who practically pulled me into the pub for a drink, as I had been saying all week I wasn’t going to attend. That night, I met my future wife at that party. I have now been married for 9 and half years and I love her more than ever and our two sons.

Trust
Trust that you will meet them. You will meet them; it might take time, but trust that it will happen. When you trust it will happen you will not be as lonely. Knowing that something will happen is a relief, there is no pressure and you can go about your normal daily routine happy in the knowledge that there are a few cupids looking out for you.
Be aware of little serendipitous moments
Look out for hidden messages. Although you have to trust that, your partner will appear you still need to look out for hidden messages in other areas of your life. If you get a strong sense that you should attend a party, even though you can’t be bothered, go to it. If you get a strong urge to go into town early one morning, go. If you feel a strong urge for a coffee and you see a starbucks, go buy a coffee. You ideal partner is waiting for as also. I wish you well and hope you meet your partner soon.

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Thu hút các đối tác lý tưởng của bạnChấp nhận được, bạn đã gieo yến mạch hoang dã của bạn, thực hiện cuộc sống đơn, Mua t-shirt trong thực tế, bạn mua toàn bộ trang phục. Sau đó đi kèm một suy nghĩ ở mặt sau của tâm trí của bạn, một cháy chậm nghĩ rằng tập hợp Đà: 'Tôi nghĩ rằng đó là thời gian để giải quyết xuống'. Bạn có thể có suy nghĩ cho một thời và nó cuối cùng đã đến một cái đầu. Bạn đang không hưởng tất cả những đêm ra càng nhiều, bạn sẽ thay vì ngồi cùng một cuốn sách tốt hoặc một bộ phim khá và bạn nhìn vào cặp vợ chồng trong tình yêu và ghen tị với họ. Đây là giọng nói 'giải quyết xuống' nhỏ.Giải quyết xuống giọng nóiĐây không phải là một giọng nói đột ngột trong đầu của bạn, nó là một dần dần và một trong đó là khó có thể bỏ qua. Nó chỉ ra cặp vợ chồng người đang ở trong tình yêu, nó chỉ ra em bé nhỏ dễ thương ở prams, nó chỉ ra như thế nào cô đơn bạn đang trong giường (thậm chí nếu có ai đó nằm bên cạnh bạn), nó làm cho bạn nhận thức của lãng mạn phim hài, trong thực tế tất cả mọi thứ liên quan đến việc yêu thương cặp vợ chồng và nó sẽ hiển thị cho bạn.Có, bạn cố gắng để bỏ qua này giọng nói nhỏ nhưng nó được to hơn và to hơn và sau đó bạn biết đó là thời gian để lắng nghe và giọng nói nhỏ đã thuyết phục bạn rằng bạn muốn có một đối tác. Một người nào đó để giải quyết xuống với.Tuy nhiên, tiếng nói ít buggers ngay sau khi bạn bắt đầu tìm kiếm đối tác lý tưởng của bạn. Bạn nhìn ở khắp mọi nơi; tại nơi làm việc trong các quán rượu và câu lạc bộ, nhìn qua đường bằng trên đường phố, và bạn vẫn không tìm thấy chúng. Bạn làm gì để tìm đối tác hoàn hảo của bạn?The settle down voiceThis is not a sudden voice in your head, it is a gradual one and one that is hard to ignore. It points out couples who are in love, it points out cute little babies in prams, it points out how lonely you are in bed (even if there is someone lying next to you), it makes you aware of romantic comedies’, in fact everything that involves loving couples and it will show you.Yes, you try to ignore this little voice but it gets louder and louder and then you know it’s time to listen and the little voice has convinced you that you want a partner. Someone to settle down with.However, the little voice buggers off as soon as you start looking for your ideal partner. You look everywhere; in the workplace, in the pubs and clubs, you look at passers by in the street, and you still don’t find them. What do you do to find your perfect partner?Visualise them in your mindOnce you have written down all the attributes you like, have an image in you head of your partner, their size, their rough looks, their personality, their sense of humour. Everything you want in you partner, try and visualize them and how the attributes you have written down play out in different scenarios e.g. how do they act in front of your friends, how do they treat you when you are out to dinner, how they act when they are with their friends.Let go!Let go of the thought of ever meeting your ideal partner. This may sound like a contradiction but it is very important. I am not saying stop visualizing them, as this is important, but let go of the outcome. By letting go of the outcome, you step back and trust another force to act on your behalf.This is how I met my wife. I had been looking for the ideal partner for years and had visualised her, and her attributes. I remember vividly the day I let go of the outcome. It was July 19th 2002. I used to look out for her everywhere, and was disappointed when she had not met me yet. Then one day I was walking along Argyle Street in Glasgow and literally said to myself “I am going to stop looking for her, I am relatively happy being a bachelor, and if that’s my lot in life, I’ll learn to make the most of it…” , I still had the image of her in my head, but I let go and stopped looking for her. After work that day, I was persuaded to go to a 40th birthday party. I was walking along the street with two friends who practically pulled me into the pub for a drink, as I had been saying all week I wasn’t going to attend. That night, I met my future wife at that party. I have now been married for 9 and half years and I love her more than ever and our two sons.TrustTrust that you will meet them. You will meet them; it might take time, but trust that it will happen. When you trust it will happen you will not be as lonely. Knowing that something will happen is a relief, there is no pressure and you can go about your normal daily routine happy in the knowledge that there are a few cupids looking out for you.Be aware of little serendipitous momentsLook out for hidden messages. Although you have to trust that, your partner will appear you still need to look out for hidden messages in other areas of your life. If you get a strong sense that you should attend a party, even though you can’t be bothered, go to it. If you get a strong urge to go into town early one morning, go. If you feel a strong urge for a coffee and you see a starbucks, go buy a coffee. You ideal partner is waiting for as also. I wish you well and hope you meet your partner soon.