Conclusion:The question of whether

Conclusion:
The question of whether or not parents should spank their children is not easy to answer. However, spanking is only of one the factors that needs to be considered in the overall discipline process. In deciding how to discipline their children parents should first ask, "What do I want to accomplish?" If the answer is "I want to teach my children how to make good choices on their own"... spanking may not be an issue. Therefore, before parents take action for discipline, they should first weigh the pros and cons of spanking's effects on children.

Pros:
Spanking quickly delivers a powerful message in terms of behavior modification. Parents who lack the patience to teach through cognitive learning can use force as means of discipline.
Parents who confuse fear with respect can feel a sense of accomplishment. Children crying in fearful subservience serve to provide parents with a sense of power and control.
Parents can feel they are preparing their kids for "that tough world out there." After all, a parent can never know if the child may grow up to one day find themselves in a job where their boss physically beats them for their mistakes. Pros:
The arguement of spanking as a form of discipline is that for the wrong doings, children experience natural consequences.
Many advocates of physical discipline believe it is acceptable as a traditional form of discipline, and/or that spanking is a necessary means of communicating a message about negative behavior to young children who may not understand verbal explanations.
"Spare the rod and spoil the child."
Never spank a child in anger
Never spank a child in front of others or with the intention of humiliating that child.
Avoid multiple spankings. "It's time we put
spanking behind us..." "It's time we put
spanking behind us..."

Cons of Spanking
Many people disagree with the idea of spanking children. There are some obvious reasons, and there are some reasons that may not be as well known.

Some cons for spanking are:
•Spanking teaches children to become spankers themselves
•Spanking teaches children the wrong way of solving conflicts rationally
•Interferes between the bond of parent and child. Children lose trust.
•Spanking can result in negative memories for children.
•It can lead to aggressiveness, antisocial behavior, and delinquency
•It can result in failure to learn right from wrong, criminal behavior, mental illness, and child or spouse abuse as adults
•Spanking can also send mixed messages
•It also makes discipline more difficult as a child gets used to/outgrows spanking
A relatively new study, published in Pediatrics, gives evidence that strongly suggests that children who are spanked may cause them to act out more than they would have if they weren’t spanked. Nearly 2,500 youngsters were studied, and it was concluded that those who were spanked more frequently at age three were more likely to be aggressive by age five. A community health sciences professor, by the name of Catherine Taylor, said, “The odds of a child being more aggressive at age five increased by 50% if he had been spanked more than twice in the month before the study began.” As five-year-olds, the kids who had been spanked were more likely than the non-spanked to be defiant, demand immediate satisfaction of their wants and needs, become frustrated easily, have temper tantrums, and lash out physically against other people or animals. The reason for the results of this study may be that corporal punishment can be said to instill fear rather than understanding. Children may learn to fear their parents rather than understanding why they were being spanked in the first place. Children may also grow to be more distant from their parents as they age if spanking is involved-possibly due to the fear of them. This can eventually lead to the delinquency said to come from spanking.

An Alternate to Spanking
Instead of spanking, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends time outs. It would cause children to calm down and think about what they’ve done instead of physically causing them pain and avoiding the real problems. Also, parents may choose to discipline their children by using the following strategies:
• Loss of privileges
• Doing extra chores
• Behavior checklist

Kết quả (Việt) 1:

Kết luận:Câu hỏi của các cha mẹ có hay không nên đánh vào đít con cái của họ không phải là dễ dàng để trả lời. Tuy nhiên, Đánh đòn là chỉ của một trong những yếu tố cần được xem xét trong tổng thể quá trình kỷ luật. Trong việc quyết định làm thế nào để kỷ luật trẻ em của cha mẹ nên lần đầu tiên hỏi, "Những gì tôi muốn đạt?" Nếu câu trả lời là "Tôi muốn dạy cho con làm thế nào để làm cho sự lựa chọn tốt của riêng họ"... Đánh đòn có thể không có một vấn đề. Vì vậy, trước khi phụ huynh có hành động kỷ luật, họ nên lần đầu tiên cân nặng ưu và khuyết điểm của spanking tác dụng trên trẻ em. Ưu điểm:Spanking nhanh chóng cung cấp một thông điệp mạnh mẽ về hành vi sửa đổi. Cha mẹ thiếu kiên nhẫn để giảng dạy thông qua nhận thức học tập có thể sử dụng vũ lực như có nghĩa là kỷ luật.Phụ huynh nhầm lẫn sợ hãi với sự tôn trọng có thể cảm thấy một cảm giác hoàn thành. Trẻ khóc trong sợ hãi lụy nhằm mục đích cung cấp cho cha mẹ với một cảm giác của quyền lực và kiểm soát.Cha mẹ có thể cảm thấy họ đang chuẩn bị trẻ em của họ cho "mà khó thế giới ra khỏi đó." Sau khi tất cả, một phụ huynh có thể không bao giờ biết nếu những đứa trẻ có thể phát triển lên đến một ngày thấy mình trong một công việc mà ông chủ của họ về thể chất đập chúng cho những sai lầm của họ. Ưu điểm:Các đối số của spanking là một hình thức kỷ luật cho doings sai, trẻ em kinh nghiệm hậu quả tự nhiên.Nhiều người ủng hộ về vật lý kỷ tin rằng nó được chấp nhận như là một hình thức kỷ luật truyền thống, và/hoặc đánh đòn là một phương tiện cần thiết để giao tiếp một tin nhắn về hành vi tiêu cực cho trẻ em những người có thể không hiểu lời giải thích bằng lời nói."Spare the rod and spoil the child."Never spank a child in angerNever spank a child in front of others or with the intention of humiliating that child.Avoid multiple spankings. "It's time we putspanking behind us..." "It's time we putspanking behind us..." Cons of SpankingMany people disagree with the idea of spanking children. There are some obvious reasons, and there are some reasons that may not be as well known. Some cons for spanking are:•Spanking teaches children to become spankers themselves•Spanking teaches children the wrong way of solving conflicts rationally•Interferes between the bond of parent and child. Children lose trust.•Spanking can result in negative memories for children.•It can lead to aggressiveness, antisocial behavior, and delinquency•It can result in failure to learn right from wrong, criminal behavior, mental illness, and child or spouse abuse as adults•Spanking can also send mixed messages•It also makes discipline more difficult as a child gets used to/outgrows spankingA relatively new study, published in Pediatrics, gives evidence that strongly suggests that children who are spanked may cause them to act out more than they would have if they weren’t spanked. Nearly 2,500 youngsters were studied, and it was concluded that those who were spanked more frequently at age three were more likely to be aggressive by age five. A community health sciences professor, by the name of Catherine Taylor, said, “The odds of a child being more aggressive at age five increased by 50% if he had been spanked more than twice in the month before the study began.” As five-year-olds, the kids who had been spanked were more likely than the non-spanked to be defiant, demand immediate satisfaction of their wants and needs, become frustrated easily, have temper tantrums, and lash out physically against other people or animals. The reason for the results of this study may be that corporal punishment can be said to instill fear rather than understanding. Children may learn to fear their parents rather than understanding why they were being spanked in the first place. Children may also grow to be more distant from their parents as they age if spanking is involved-possibly due to the fear of them. This can eventually lead to the delinquency said to come from spanking.
An Alternate to Spanking
Instead of spanking, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends time outs. It would cause children to calm down and think about what they’ve done instead of physically causing them pain and avoiding the real problems. Also, parents may choose to discipline their children by using the following strategies:
• Loss of privileges
• Doing extra chores
• Behavior checklist