Your Answer:Well, first of all, con

Your Answer:
Well, first of all, congratulations for standing up for yourself... well, for knowing that you don't deserve what she's done, anyway. You're gonna have to pull it together! Think about it... say she came back today and said she wanted to be back together with you. Think real hard. She basically told you that she was in LOVE with someone else, while you guys were together. I mean, a smart girl who was commited to her relationship would NOT have put herself in that position in the first place. She NEVER should have gone to hang around with the other guy knowing she had a weakness for him. I can't believe how unbelievably stupid she was. Secondly, if you get back together, what are you gonna do if all of a sudden he comes back around? There she goes again, and there YOU go again being not only hurt, but feeling dumb that you let it happen again. Fool me once, ya know? Every time she goes out with her friends, every phone call she doesn't answer, every minute you're not with her, you're going to have that thought in the back of your mind... 'is she with someone else?'. It'll ALWAYS be there. Always. And it will eat away at you, trust me. It's not a good feeling at all. Do you really want to put yourself through that?
I understand that you're wondering how she can move on so fast, but you've got to think about it like this, even though it sucks. She wouldn't have moved on if she didn't want to, right? That's what is really holding you back, I think. You're hurt and upset that she's moved on when you haven't yet. It happens with everyone, it's one of those selfish things our hearts make up do. I think that this happened for a reason, for sure. You don't need to go through that all the time. And if she was stupid enough to do that to you when everything was going good for you guys, I'd bet my life it'd be hard for her to resist if you guys got back together, you know, things are always a little shaky at the beginning when you get back together with someone. And, along with that, what is there to keep her from doing it when she did it over and over the last time and you still wanted to be with her? She's not gonna look at it like, oh if she screws up she'll lose you. She's gonna look at it like, oh I can screw up, we'll fight, and then everything will be ok again.

Have a little more pride in yourself, babe. Don't be her personal doormat- you didn't do anything to deserve the heartache that she will almost certainly bring right back along with her. My advice would be, first of all, wherever you're getting this gossip about her and her new guy, cut yourself off from that. It hurts alot less when you don't know about it right? And, give yourself some time. It's only been, what, a month? Anytime you break up with someone, it sucks, ya know? No matter if you've been together for 2 months or 2 years, it always hurts, and it's something we all know going into a relationship, but dont want anything to do with coming out of it. Time is the real cure to your heartache. And I know it sounds cliche, but it's true. This time next year you are going to look back and realize that letting her go was the best thing you could've done for yourself. I know it's easier said than done, but let some other fool deal with her games. She doesn't take love very serious, obviously, and is that really someone you want to waste YOUR love on? Something you put so much effort and heart into, shouldn't be thrown on the ground and stomped on. You deserve much, much better, and you will find it, I promise! Good luck to you, I wish you the best.