It can be very, very easy to get su

It can be very, very easy to get sucked into worrying too much about what other people think. We often try to look, speak and act like those around us. As a result, many people stay stuck in their shells, afraid to let their real selves be seen for fear of judgement or ridicule by the herd. However, even though there is a human tendency to want to “fit in,” there are a number of ways to live life for yourself, rather than others.

To be clear, you may find that some of the items below do not apply to you, and that is ok. The point here is not that you should have to be radically different in every aspect of your life, but rather that you allow the things that make you different to be seen and heard. The real question is: are you willing to let other people see you for who you are?

That being said, if any of these statements are already true of you, pat yourself on the back, because it means that you have made some choices to live life for yourself, despite what other people may think!

1.You’ve said “no” when someone’s asked you to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable.

2. You’ve pursued a hobby or a job you are passionate about, even though other people think it is weird, unrealistic or ridiculous.

3. You dress out of personal preference rather than to fit in. Perhaps you dress differently than most of the people in your circle or peer group.

4. Due to personal preferences, you’ve chosen a wildly different living situation than most people (like living off of the grid, living in a tiny home or living out of a backpack).

5. You’ve quit a job or dropped out of school simply because it didn’t fulfill you.

6. You’ve come to your own conclusions on subjects like politics and religion, and your political and/or religious views may be very different from the ones you were raised with.

7. You’re willing to speak your mind, even if you know your thoughts may be judged by others.

8. You’ve come out of the closet in some capacity: perhaps with your sexuality, or perhaps you’ve just let people see an aspect of yourself that many people would choose to hide.



9. You’re willing to let go of relationships that no longer serve you. Instead of keeping up appearances, you prefer to have authentic relationships.

10. You’ve disappointed your parents, teacher, boss or other authority figure by following your heart rather than following the rules or expectations.

11. You’ve formed a close relationship with someone you care about even though it has raised eyebrows. Perhaps there’s been a difference in age, race or socioeconomic status that other people disagree with, but you’ve allowed yourself to love who you love regardless.

These are just a handful of ways to live life for yourself rather than for other people. It’s not likely that all of these items apply to you. However, having just one or two of the experiences above is evidence you have made some choices to live life for yourself-even though others may judge or criticize you for it.

Do any of the statements above apply to you? If so, comment and let me know!

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It can be very, very easy to get sucked into worrying too much about what other people think. We often try to look, speak and act like those around us. As a result, many people stay stuck in their shells, afraid to let their real selves be seen for fear of judgement or ridicule by the herd. However, even though there is a human tendency to want to “fit in,” there are a number of ways to live life for yourself, rather than others.To be clear, you may find that some of the items below do not apply to you, and that is ok. The point here is not that you should have to be radically different in every aspect of your life, but rather that you allow the things that make you different to be seen and heard. The real question is: are you willing to let other people see you for who you are?That being said, if any of these statements are already true of you, pat yourself on the back, because it means that you have made some choices to live life for yourself, despite what other people may think!1.You’ve said “no” when someone’s asked you to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable.2. You’ve pursued a hobby or a job you are passionate about, even though other people think it is weird, unrealistic or ridiculous.3. You dress out of personal preference rather than to fit in. Perhaps you dress differently than most of the people in your circle or peer group.4. Due to personal preferences, you’ve chosen a wildly different living situation than most people (like living off of the grid, living in a tiny home or living out of a backpack).5. bạn đã bỏ một công việc hoặc bị bỏ ra khỏi trường học chỉ đơn giản là bởi vì nó không đáp ứng bạn.6. bạn đã đi đến kết luận của riêng bạn trên các đối tượng như chính trị và tôn giáo, và quan điểm chính trị và/hoặc tôn giáo của bạn có thể rất khác nhau từ những người bạn đã được nâng lên với.7. bạn sẵn sàng để nói chuyện tâm trí của bạn, ngay cả khi bạn biết suy nghĩ của bạn có thể được đánh giá bởi những người khác.8. bạn đã ra khỏi buồng riêng trong một số khả năng: có lẽ với tình dục của bạn, hoặc có lẽ bạn đã chỉ cho mọi người thấy một khía cạnh của bản thân bạn mà nhiều người sẽ chọn để ẩn. 9. bạn sẵn sàng để cho đi của mối quan hệ không còn phục vụ bạn. Thay vì giữ lên xuất hiện, bạn muốn có mối quan hệ xác thực.10. bạn đã thất vọng của bạn phụ huynh, giáo viên, ông chủ hoặc con số cơ quan khác bằng cách làm theo trái tim của bạn chứ không phải là sau các quy tắc hoặc mong đợi.11. bạn đã thành lập một mối quan hệ gần gũi với ai đó bạn quan tâm mặc dù nó đã lớn lên lông mày. Có lẽ đã có một sự khác biệt tuổi tác, chủng tộc hoặc tình trạng kinh tế xã hội mà người khác không đồng ý với, nhưng bạn đã cho phép bản thân bạn cho tình yêu người bạn yêu thương bất kể.Đây là chỉ một số ít các cách để sống cuộc sống cho chính mình chứ không phải là cho những người khác. Nó không phải là có khả năng rằng mọi khoản mục này áp dụng cho bạn. Tuy nhiên, có chỉ là một hoặc hai trong số những kinh nghiệm ở trên là bằng chứng bạn đã thực hiện một số lựa chọn để sống cuộc sống cho chính mình, thậm chí cả khi những người khác có thể thẩm phán hoặc chỉ trích bạn cho nó.Do any of the statements above apply to you? If so, comment and let me know!